The Lady(Bug) of the Household: November 2022

Remember The Dream

"I HAVE A DREAM"
Dr. Martin Luther King
Lincoln Memorial
Washington, DC
August 28, 1963

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"I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.

Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of their captivity.

But one hundred years later, the Negro still is not free. One hundred years later, the life of the Negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later, the Negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later, the Negro is still languished in the corners of American society and finds himself an exile in his own land. And so we've come here today to dramatize a shameful condition.

In a sense we've come to our nation's capital to cash a check. When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir. This note was a promise that all men, yes, black men as well as white men, would be guaranteed the 'unalienable Rights' of 'Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.' It is obvious today that America has defaulted on this promissory note, insofar as her citizens of color are concerned. Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, America has given the Negro people a bad check, a check which has come back marked "insufficient funds."

But we refuse to believe that the bank of justice is bankrupt. We refuse to believe that there are insufficient funds in the great vaults of opportunity of this nation. And so, we've come to cash this check, a check that will give us upon demand the riches of freedom and the security of justice.

We have also come to this hallowed spot to remind America of the fierce urgency of Now. This is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism. Now is the time to make real the promises of democracy. Now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley of segregation to the sunlit path of racial justice. Now is the time to lift our nation from the quicksands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood. Now is the time to make justice a reality for all of God's children.

It would be fatal for the nation to overlook the urgency of the moment. This sweltering summer of the Negro's legitimate discontent will not pass until there is an invigorating autumn of freedom and equality. Nineteen sixty-three is not an end, but a beginning. And those who hope that the Negro needed to blow off steam and will now be content will have a rude awakening if the nation returns to business as usual. And there will be neither rest nor tranquility in America until the Negro is granted his citizenship rights. The whirlwinds of revolt will continue to shake the foundations of our nation until the bright day of justice emerges.

But there is something that I must say to my people, who stand on the warm threshold which leads into the palace of justice: In the process of gaining our rightful place, we must not be guilty of wrongful deeds. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred. We must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity and discipline. We must not allow our creative protest to degenerate into physical violence. Again and again, we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force.

The marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to a distrust of all white people, for many of our white brothers, as evidenced by their presence here today, have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny. And they have come to realize that their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom. We cannot walk alone. And as we walk, we must make the pledge that we shall always march ahead. We cannot turn back.

There are those who are asking the devotees of civil rights, 'When will you be satisfied?' We can never be satisfied as long as the Negro is the victim of the unspeakable horrors of police brutality. We can never be satisfied as long as our bodies, heavy with the fatigue of travel, cannot gain lodging in the motels of the highways and the hotels of the cities. We cannot be satisfied as long as the negro's basic mobility is from a smaller ghetto to a larger one. We can never be satisfied as long as our children are stripped of their self-hood and robbed of their dignity by signs stating: 'For Whites Only.' We cannot be satisfied as long as a Negro in Mississippi cannot vote and a Negro in New York believes he has nothing for which to vote. No, no, we are not satisfied, and we will not be satisfied until 'justice rolls down like waters, and righteousness like a mighty stream.'

I am not unmindful that some of you have come here out of great trials and tribulations. Some of you have come fresh from narrow jail cells. And some of you have come from areas where your quest -- quest for freedom left you battered by the storms of persecution and staggered by the winds of police brutality. You have been the veterans of creative suffering. Continue to work with the faith that unearned suffering is redemptive. Go back to Mississippi, go back to Alabama, go back to South Carolina, go back to Georgia, go back to Louisiana, go back to the slums and ghettos of our northern cities, knowing that somehow this situation can and will be changed.

Let us not wallow in the valley of despair, I say to you today, my friends. And so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream.

I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal."

I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia, the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood.

I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.

I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character. I have a dream today!

I have a dream that one day, down in Alabama, with its vicious racists, with its governor having his lips dripping with the words of "interposition" and 'nullification' -- one day right there in Alabama little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls as sisters and brothers. I have a dream today!

I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, and every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight; 'and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed and all flesh shall see it together.'

This is our hope, and this is the faith that I go back to the South with. With this faith, we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith, we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith, we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.

And this will be the day -- this will be the day when all of God's children will be able to sing with new meaning:

My country 'tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing. Land where my fathers died, land of the Pilgrim's pride, From every mountainside, let freedom ring!

And if America is to be a great nation, this must become true. And so let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire. Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York. Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania. Let freedom ring from the snow-capped Rockies of Colorado. Let freedom ring from the curvaceous slopes of California. But not only that: Let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia. Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee. Let freedom ring from every hill and molehill of Mississippi. From every mountainside, let freedom ring. And when this happens, when we allow freedom ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God's children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual:

Free at last! Free at last! Thank God Almighty, we're free at last!"

MJ Walk of Fame

MY FAVORITES LIST
I Want You Back
Who's Lovin' You
You've Changed
Can You Remember
Chained
Born To Love You
Zip-A-Dee-Do-Dah
ABC
The Young Folks
The Love You Save
One More Chance
2-4-6-8
I'm The One You Need
I'll Bet You
Don't Know Why I Love You
True Love Can Be Beautiful
I'll Be There
Mama's Pearl
Goin' Back To Indiana
Can I See You In The Morning
Reach In
Darlin' Dear
The Love I Saw In You Was Just A Mirage
How Funky Is Your Chicken
Feelin' Alright
Never Can Say Goodbye
Maybe Tomorrow
Sugar Daddy
Christmas Won't Be The Same This Year
Santa Claus Is Coming To Town
Got To Be There
Lookin' Through The Windows
Little Bitty Pretty One
Skywriter
Rockin' Robin
I Wanna Be Where You Are
Ben
Dancing Machine
Good Times
Enjoy Yourself
Blame It On The Boogie
Shake Your Body Down To The Ground
Show You The Way To Go
Ease On Down The Road
Heartbreak Hotel
Can You Feel It
Torture
We Can Change The World

Don't Stop 'Til You Get Enough
Rock With You
Workin' Day & Night
Off The Wall
Girlfriend
She's Out Of My Life
I Can't Help It
It's The Falling In Love
Wanna Be Startin' Somethin'
Baby Be Mine
The Girl Is Mine
Thriller
Beat It
Billie Jean
Human Nature
P.Y.T.
The Lady In My Life
We Are The World
Bad
The Way You Make Me Feel
Speed Demon
Liberian Girl
Man In The Mirror
I Just Can't Stop Loving You
Dirty Diana
Smooth Criminal
Leave Me Alone
Jam
Why You Wanna Trip On Me
Remember The Time
Heal The World
Black Or White
Will You Be There
Gone Too Soon
Dangerous
Scream
They Don't Care About Us
Earth Song
You Are Not Alone
Childhood
Smile
Unbreakable
Heartbreaker
Invincible
Break Of Dawn
Heaven Can Wait
You Rock My World
Butterflies
Speechless
You Are My Life
Don't Walk Away
Cry
The Lost Children
Whatever Happens
This Is It

GONE WAY TOO SOON!
Michael Joseph Jackson
08/29/1958 – 06/25/2009

The Rainbow Bridge

Just this side of heaven is a place called The Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to The Rainbow Bridge. There are hills and meadows for all of our special friends so they can play and run together. There is plenty of food, water, and sunshine where our friends are comfortable and warm.

All of the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made strong and whole again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are content and happy, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all play and run together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. Their bright eyes are intent; their eager body quivers. Suddenly they begin to run from the group, flying over the green grass, their legs carrying them faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress their beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then, you can cross The Rainbow Bridge together...

Paul C. Dahm

🕊 In loving memory of all my family pets, 6 dogs and 1 cat! Chaka, Champ, Duchess, Duke, King, Pebbles, and Queenie!

Wednesday, November 30, 2022

❓ Did You Know

📣 Center For Disease Control

No thanks. Don't want this either!
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🎄 #WordlessWednesday

Tuesday, November 29, 2022

💜 Year-End Giving

Please consider a contribution to the Lewy Body
Dementia Association to help people living with LBD.

📣 It's Giving Tuesday

This annual day of giving is always the first Tuesday after Thanksgiving. Please donate to the organization of your choice today and/or support year-end giving if you can during the month of December!

Monday, November 28, 2022

I Have 24 Hearts. What About You?

❤️ Been married
❤️ Been engaged
❤️ Been divorced
❤️ Been to Disney World
❤️ Skipped school
Been to Canada
❤️ Rode in an ambulance
Been to Hawaii
Been to Las Vegas
Been to Texas
Visited Mexico
Seen the Grand Canyon in person
Flown in a helicopter
❤️ Flown in a plane
❤️ Been on a cruise
❤️ Been on a ferry boat
Sang in the rain
Been to California
❤️ Been to New York
❤️ Played in band/color guard/orchestra
❤️ Sang in the school/church choir
❤️ Sang karaoke
❤️ Laughed so much you cried and/or peed
❤️ Caught a snowflake on your tongue
❤️ Had/Have/Having children
❤️ Had a pet(s)
Been sledding on a big hill
Rode on a motorcycle
❤️ Been to a drive-in movie
Rode a camel
❤️ Rode a horse
Been on TV
❤️ Stayed in the hospital
❤️ Donated blood or plasma
❤️ Gotten a piercing
Driven a stick shift vehicle
Got a speeding ticket
❤️ Gotten stitches or staples
❤️ Traveled alone
Been zip lining
Been to another country
Shot a gun

🌞 #MotivationMonday

Sunday, November 27, 2022

⭐️ Let The Holiday Specials Begin!

Sunday, November 27th, 8:00-10:00pm ET on ABC

🎄 So We Don't Forget...

One year, I remember being broke for Christmas after food shopping and paying the bills, so I wrote a post-dated check to make sure I could provide a good Christmas for my family. I've lived as high and as low as it’s possible to go. There were times I put $10 worth of gas in my tank and other times $50. I've had $5 to feed myself and I’ve also had $200 to go out to eat. I’ve had a house full of food and at times I didn’t have any. I’ve been in stores cashing out with no worries and I’ve also had to add it up and put things back on the shelf. I’ve paid my bills in full and I’ve paid them late. I’ve given money and I've had to ask for it too.

We all have highs and lows in life. Some certainly more than others, but we're all trying to make it. No one is better than anyone else and my heart is sad for those people who "think" that they are. No matter how big your house is, how new your car is, or how much money you have in the bank, we all bleed red and will eventually fade from this earth. Death has no discrimination and neither should your life. Be kind to others because we're all here to serve. Stop the power tripping because your oversized ego won’t get you anywhere. Be humble, keep the faith, and love one another.

Very few people will read this all the way through but if you did, consider yourself challenged to copy and share it. Most won’t because they might be the type of people it is talking about--if the shoe fits, wear it. And yes, just in case you're wondering, this is a cut-n-paste from Facebook. But, it's the best one I've seen in a while, and what better time to remind ourselves of all these things than during the holiday season!

⛪️ SBC Morning Worship Service

Bishop Keith W. Reed, Sr., Senior Pastor-Teacher

Saturday, November 26, 2022

🎶 Yah Mo Be There

We have lost so many great voices to GOD's Heavenly Choir and this one is also among those who have been silenced on this side of heaven forever. It's still hard to believe, but at least I can continue to enjoy his voice through the music he left behind. I'm in a zone that sounds good but also feels sad right now. Just SMH...

😂 Tyler's Reply to Madea Movie Poster

Click on image see his hilarious response!

🌞 Meme of the Day

Friday, November 25, 2022

😍 Thanks BAM

Interesting, considering I don't drive but I could always sell it!

🎄 #FBF Black Friday Memories 2007-14

😇 Meme of the Day

Have A Great Day & Greater Weekend!